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When words fail, it’s usually because the actual conflict isn’t about the topic at hand. It’s about feeling undervalued, unheard, or unsafe. Stop listening to the words and start listening to the tone . Ask a question that addresses the emotion: "It sounds like you're feeling frustrated that we aren't prioritizing the design—is that right?" 5. Admit the Defeat

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Words often get "stuck" in certain environments. If a discussion is stalling in a conference room, suggest a "walk and talk." The physical act of moving forward and standing side-by-side (rather than eye-to-eye) lowers defensiveness and opens up new neural pathways for problem-solving. 4. Listen for the "Subtext" When words fail, it’s usually because the actual