Keeping promises and being reliable in your commitments.

Modern etiquette experts, such as those from the Emily Post Institute , suggest that chivalry has moved from gender-specific rules to general acts of consideration. Old Chivalry (Gendered) New Chivalry (Inclusive) The man always pays the bill. The host (whoever invited) pays, or guests split the bill. A man stands when a woman enters. Stand for anyone joining the table in formal settings. Men open car doors for women.

For 21st-century social guidelines, check out the Emily Post guide to Modern Chivalry.