Most people approach a stranger like they’re diffusing a bomb. They’re stiff, overthinking the "perfect" opener, and radiating enough nervous energy to power a small city.
"You don't sound like you're from around here. I'm guessing West Coast?"
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"Work can be a drag or a dream. Which side of the fence are you on today?" 5. Exit While It’s Good
People love talking about themselves, but they really love it when someone notices a detail. Look for a "hook"—a unique piece of jewelry, a book they’re holding, or even a specific brand of sneakers. Most people approach a stranger like they’re diffusing
“I couldn’t help but notice that book—I’ve heard the ending is a total mind-bender. No spoilers, though!” 3. Use "Statement-Questions"
Stop trying to be clever. The easiest way to start is to comment on the one thing you both definitely have in common: the environment. I'm guessing West Coast
"I’m debating between the latte and the cold brew—have you tried the seasonal one here?"