: Kindlon and Thompson suggest ways for parents and educators to encourage boys to remain emotionally connected while still developing strength and independence. Practical Advice for Parents
: It emphasizes the importance of men showing emotional range to provide a healthy blueprint for masculinity.
: Validate a boy's right to feel fear, sadness, and hurt, rather than just anger or "toughness."
: Help boys recognize and respect the feelings of others, which is a critical skill for healthy adult relationships. Digital Availability
Crescându-l pe Cain (original title: Raising Cain ) by Dan Kindlon and Michael Thompson is a foundational text in child psychology that explores the emotional lives of boys.