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Rafet El Romanв Elimde Deдџil -

: The chorus—"Elimde değil, hala seviyorum / Elimde değil, unutamıyorum"—translates to "It’s not in my hands, I still love you / It’s not in my hands, I cannot forget".

Released on December 14, 2000, (It’s Not in My Hands) is one of the most enduring hits by Turkish pop star Rafet El Roman . Featured on his album Hanımeli , the song became a definitive ballad of the early 2000s, blending emotional Europop with a timeless message of lingering love. Core Themes and Lyrics Rafet El RomanВ Elimde DeДџil

Written by Rafet El Roman and Gürkan Hantal, the song captures the pain of a breakup that the heart refuses to accept. The lyrics are a raw confession of helplessness: : The chorus—"Elimde değil, hala seviyorum / Elimde

: Despite the physical end of the relationship ("git artık gideceksen"), the singer declares that the beloved will always remain in their heart. Musical Impact and Legacy Core Themes and Lyrics Written by Rafet El

: The verses touch on external voices, noting that those who said the love had no future "turned out to be right" and "now became happy" at the sight of the split.

Listen to Elimde Değil (feat. Rafet El Roman) - Single by Özge Biroğlu on Apple Music. 2025. 1 Song. Duration: 3 minutes. Apple Music

"Elimde Değil" is widely regarded as a "never-aging" classic in Turkish pop music.

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